Saturday, August 25, 2012

NOT A GRINCH!

Age and Health.  This post is Good News.  You can read on in peace.
Marvin's twin brother experienced a heart attack in January.  He is fine, but his ordeal and subsequent follow-up care served as a wake-up call to us.  How long had it been since Marvin visited the Stern Clinic?  Hmmmm. 5 years.  Time for a check-up.
The tests are far more sophisticated than they were even 5 years ago.  New tests have been added and more combined tests are performed.  Thank Goodness for SCS Insurance Benefit for Retirees.  Don't ever take that for granted!
After the nurse took him off the treadmill test when his BP spiked, we became concerned.  Well, turns out, that spike in BP was fairly normal.  After a week, Dr. Heart Specialist's secretary called to say - "He has a Perfect Heart."  It may be larger than most given the kind of work he's done all his life, but there is Not One Thing wrong with this man's heart.
It took a lot of money and days and tests to state in one sentence what I could have told them, from my perspective.
Marvin's Heart is huge with a capacity for love and tenderness like I have never experienced. He is so easily touched and moved emotionally with stories of family and sacrifice.  It is also a complicated heart, bruised and wounded through years of living. X-rays and CT scans do not reveal scar-tissue and caloused areas built up to cover pain.  His mouth sometimes betrays his heart, but who among us has not had that happen? Marvin's big, tough-guy persona and old-time, long-held value system puts a different picture out in public, sometimes, but I am here to state unequivocally, if anything is wrong with his heart, it's that it is 2 SIZES TOO LARGE.
Other Health News:
I'm fine!  Exercising and losing some stress weight, I hope.  I am cooking healthy stuff, cutting down on Diet Coke, eliminating fat-filled goey chocolate desserts, catfish and hushpuppies, and planning to live for a very long time.
Another Hallelujah health report comes from my dear friend Anita Simmons. She had been incognito for a while, but called me 2 weeks ago.  I felt like a piece of MY heart had been found and reinserted, making it whole once again. She is doing well and had a negative breast biopsy from tests last Wednesday.
Prayer requests for Lorraine Griffin.  She is fighting cancer which was well-advanced when discovered.
Try to remember that DARK CHOCOLATE is MEDICINALLY RECOMMENDED.

Thursday, August 23, 2012

CAUTION: "Your Phone May Be Smarter Than It Looks"

Yep, we have new phones.  Both of us have DROIDS, RAZR. 
We have OtterBox Cases; mine is Pink over a white phone. I have loaded pictures into the Gallery.... "SWOOSH!" and there they are. Voila'!
Ringtones from my former-fone were easy to move over. I love the size; it fits so nicely into my grasp. So much less likely to drop the thing when I have 5 things in my hands and easier to find in the bottom of my purse.  And, it has a car mount that fits into the air vent in the car.  Cool!
This phone may replace my desire to hold a map....I can just hold the phone! I could be even more dangerous.
The service is Verizon, so the reception up here will be much better, and nation-wide, too, as I have read. 
For the contact photos, I have selected the most beautiful and handsome for each of you.  So, if you are worried about the photo I have for you, best get one sent my way!  Hershey has a cute one for her contact (Vet, Grooming, etc. hahaha), and you should, too. No, she does not talk on the phone, but, could the voice activated mechanism translate doggie into southern?  
The phone calendar syncs to my Google Calendar and to my Google+ Account. I have no excuses!  This should be fun.
As Jana stated, local numbers will sit much better with the constituants, since Marvin is on the ballot for City Council.  Jana suggests I might be First Lady of Rector City Council - might be a stretch!    Marvin Gatewood for City Council, Pos#2
If I look in my rear view mirror, I will probably see this Pink Fone, trying to sneak up on me, looming larger than I might have imagined.

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

The Candidate, 2012

     Robert Redford starred in the 1972 movie, The Candidate, a great movie wherein an unknown political newbie emerges to win an election over the corrupt establishment.  I remember being so taken with both Robert Redford and the movie that when The Senator was playing out at the Mall of Memphis, nothing would do but that we attend!  Yes, the showing was a late show, but that did not garner any special attention.  Yes, we were among about 50 people standing in line to get in.  Yes, I did get "carded."  I know I am a young looking chick, but really.  Even in New Orleans at Pete Fountains at age 17, I did not get carded.  Hmmmm.  This is most unusual, I thought.
    The Senator was an X or XXX rated movie that showed me far more flesh than I could take in.  The movie scenes on the deck of a yacht had me covering my eyes.  "We've got to go!" I said, begging to leave.  "It'll get better," he said.  "Yeah, but what do you mean by better, that's what I want to know!"
        Today, 40 years later, I am married to The Candidate, my version of Robert Redford.  Marvin has filed for Position 2 in the West Ward of the City of Rector for City Council.  Election Day:  November 6, 2012.  That's exciting.  Does this mean that I need a new wardrobe since I am the wife of the candidate?  Is this a call for Extreme Shopping? Marvin said he thought it important to immediately start kissing babies.
              I told him that was OK, as long as they were wearing diapers!

Friday, August 10, 2012

Hero, General, King of South Carolina

August.  School.  Meeting to drop retrieve children. Flood of memories.
     David and his girlfriend Colby kept Hershey for a few days while Marvin and I had some out of town business to attend to.  So, today, I drove to McDonald’s in Marion, AR, to pick up Hershey.  When she saw her Mommy, she was all moving legs and tail: wiggle-wiggle-wiggle to get to me!  That is a treat - to have my baby want to come back home with me, because when I retrieved my sons from visiting their Nana and Poppy, they did not want to get into my car. Back to reality was no fun, whatsoever.

     One such extreme memory involves Richard.  When he was in Camden, he was Hero, General, and King of the World.  Who would want to leave that kingdom to come back to Memphis to begin the school year in 3rd grade!  He was thrilled to see his Mommy, but when we started loading His Things into my car, he wanted to load My Things into Nana and Poppy’s car.  Why couldn’t Mommy just go with him and stay down there.  They don’t have school down in Camden!

     When we explained reality, it was not well received.  Richard tried to hide under the seats by scrunching as far down in the floorboard of the back seat as he could.  Then, he’d become a dead weight and I had to literally drag him out of their car.  I wanted so badly to crawl in there myself! As they drove away from the Dillard’s parking lot, both Richard and I were crying.

Now, Richard is Hero, General, and King of his own life and has moved to Charleston, SC, to finish up his schooling in Landscape/Turf Management, Tree Doctoring, and similar.  A great place to be with that field is South Carolina. There must be a million golf courses and a national tree company that has tons of business.  Plenty of opportunities for internships, etc. exist there.  Not to mention, it’s where Rhett Butler’s people are from and where Scarlett went to “get him back.”
Marvin and I did not get to Charleston when we were in Hilton Head in April, but it was an area we loved.  And, I think it’s a perfect fit for Richard.  His girlfriend Maurene is there, also.  And so is Lincoln, their hound dog puppy.

His schooling there starts August 20, and it’s what he wants, where he wants, and what he wants to do.  No one is pulling him out of the car to do anything else!